Well, I had to go ahead and check this out from the library after reading the first one. Mainly because as I read a sample of the first chapter of this one, I thought it would help me to understand the main character Travis Maddox, and might help me to not feel so guilty about reading it. Why did I feel guilty? I'm not going to spell it all out again, you can go read my reasoning at my review of the first book, Beautiful Disaster.
I would definitely say that reading from Travis's viewpoint did help to make it a little less bad. And as I read it from his side, I could see that one thing the other main character, Abby, says is true. They are both so dysfunctional together, but it is right. While in the first book you only saw it from her side, and all you saw was how crazy Travis got, here you could see what was going through his brain, as well as how he really was trying to do better for her.
This isn't going to be a long review, because really most of the story is the same as I would have told you in the review of the first book. Now, this book, I noticed some spelling/grammar errors that weren't caught by an editor. Another difference in this book is that you get to see more of Shepley, Travis's cousin, Abby's friend America's boyfriend. Because he lives with Travis. So we get to know him better. And I loved at the end, the little bonus bit that talks about Travis and Abby and their life further down the road. They've been married for awhile and have kids. It's great to hear about what kind of job Travis has. Although, I don't know. I guess just the dysfunctional codependency I saw in Travis makes me a bit hesitant to believe that was the type of job he went into. But what do I know?
A good, quick read. I will definitely be reading the book that got me to read this, Red Hill, when I get a chance.
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Monday, December 23, 2013
Beautiful Disaster by Jamie McGuire
So, well, this is going to be a hard book to review. I only picked it up because I saw the book Red Hill by this author, and it sounded really good, but I was told I needed to read this first. So I checked it out from the library, thinking if I liked it, it would be one I'd recommend to my sister Sarah who is my fellow chick lit reader. But, she and I have had many conversations about someone we know who was in a very co-dependent, dysfunctional, unhealthy relationship, and as I read this book, that was what I kept coming back to. I read this over 400 page book in two days, it was definitely a page turner, and definitely hard to put down. But I felt guilty rooting for them because of how the relationship was. If people say that Twilight is a horrible example of an abusive relationship, then there is no way they could possibly like this book. I never once felt that way as I read Twilight, but this book, I just felt it from the morning they really started getting involved. I don't know if it is okay to go ahead and read about this, knowing this isn't a good type of relationship. Is it condoning this? I don't want to do that. But the characters were at least interesting. I can't decide whether to read on, as the next book is supposed to be the same story, but from Travis's viewpoint.
Abby has gone to college with her best friend America. She is glad to be able to get away from her small town and all the looks she got for who she was, and who she was had to do with who her father was. But here at school she gets to reinvent herself as a good girl. And then she meets Travis. Travis is America's boyfriend Shepley's roommate/cousin. And he is exactly what she doesn't need. He is a bad boy. Tattooed, a fighter, a ladies man. So they end up becoming friends. And she seems to be good for Travis. But she knows that he isn't good for her, so she keeps him at arm's length. But he does seem to fall for her. And really, of course, she does seem to fall for him. It is a best friend type of romance. But when they do get together, he becomes very jealous, and definitely what would be considered unhealthy jealous. So she tries to break it off, but that doesn't go well either. It's a very wild ride. And maybe, very realistic as there are many people in this type of relationship.
I'm so torn on my review. It was a good read, but I just feel like I shouldn't read about this. But I have to stick to what I tell people, just because I read something, doesn't mean I'm going to go out and look for a relationship like that. So, it's okay, right?
If you've read this, do you get what I'm saying? Did you feel this way at all? I'd love to hear some other points of view.
Abby has gone to college with her best friend America. She is glad to be able to get away from her small town and all the looks she got for who she was, and who she was had to do with who her father was. But here at school she gets to reinvent herself as a good girl. And then she meets Travis. Travis is America's boyfriend Shepley's roommate/cousin. And he is exactly what she doesn't need. He is a bad boy. Tattooed, a fighter, a ladies man. So they end up becoming friends. And she seems to be good for Travis. But she knows that he isn't good for her, so she keeps him at arm's length. But he does seem to fall for her. And really, of course, she does seem to fall for him. It is a best friend type of romance. But when they do get together, he becomes very jealous, and definitely what would be considered unhealthy jealous. So she tries to break it off, but that doesn't go well either. It's a very wild ride. And maybe, very realistic as there are many people in this type of relationship.
I'm so torn on my review. It was a good read, but I just feel like I shouldn't read about this. But I have to stick to what I tell people, just because I read something, doesn't mean I'm going to go out and look for a relationship like that. So, it's okay, right?
If you've read this, do you get what I'm saying? Did you feel this way at all? I'd love to hear some other points of view.
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